I have not blogged at all for quite a long stretch. It has been over half a year. I think that might be the longest continuous stretch since I started this blog many years ago. I have not given up on this blog entirely. I am finally coming out of a very dark time in my professional life. I have finally come to the realization that my vocation to the priesthood is pretty much dead.
As many of you know, I decided to step down from the ministry in the Episcopal church over five years ago now for various theological reasons I will not drag up here. That is over and done with. I had hoped to pick up the mantle of ministry again in my new spiritual home, but after five years of getting stabbed in the back over and over again and not even given the time of day by bishop after bishop, I think it is time to finally say that while I have not completely given up on the idea, I've pretty much given up, barring some miraculous Divine intervention. I just am not really open to putting myself in the position of getting stabbed in the back again. If people are serious about remedying a vocations crisis, they know where to find me. If not, it's time to move on with my life.
The final straw came over the last few months back in mid-winter. I felt like finally I had made some forward progress, only to get the final unceremonious left foot of fellowship out the door with no explanation from whom I thought were allies who it turned out had just been stringing me along for years for reasons that I still do not fully understand, nor at this point do I really care to understand.
So, there it is. Maybe this is, in fact, God's will for me, at least at this point in my life. Maybe someday, this will change, but at this point, it is time to face facts: it is time to move on with my life, albeit in a lay capacity.
I am still wrestling with what that means and where to go from here. I have been pondering what a career in some other field looks like, without a whole lot of success. I have a lot of interests and talents, but my job prospects have heretofore not really panned out. Luckily, I have had a job these last 5 years, but it is largely monotonous and not fulfilling.
This brings me to say why I have had trouble finding employment. It came as quite a revelation that my former Anglican bishop, with whom I always had a good relationship and had respected, has apparently been giving bad references about me to prospective employers without telling, lo, these last five years. I only found out this last week when it came out in an interview that I had gotten bad references that pretty much had killed my chances with this one job that I had been really interested in pursuing.
I was hopping mad at first, but, I finally came to the realization that I just needed to forgive and shake the dirt from my feet. I am still shocked at it, but at least I know now why I had had so many job leads go completely sour on me in the last few years with obvious no reason why. So, maybe in a strange way that whole fiasco last week was a blessing in disguise. I can now completely and finally close this whole chapter in my life and try to find meaning in where God is leading me in the future.
Where that is, I have no idea.
What that is, I have no idea.
I hope to relaunch this blog, or at least create a new, fresh one somewhere else, and start writing again. I don't know what that will look like either, but hopefully, I will at least give it a whirl now that I have past the height of the bleak winter.
But, as Gandalf said in the Lord of the Rings trilogy:
“It's a dangerous business, Frodo, going out your door. You step onto the road, and if you don't keep your feet, there's no knowing where you might be swept off to.”
Pray for me, and I will continue to pray for all of you.
UPDATE: Shortly after posting this, I saw this floating around the internet (it's likely a fake, as it's in English). but I think it pretty much says it all: